Bullying. Unfortunately, this term has become way too common in American schools and social media. Most of us have heard (or experienced) some of the horrible stories of just how serious bullying can be and the detrimental effects it can have on the lives of young people.
A new report came out last week that said bullying among siblings was as harmful and destructive as bullying outside of the home (i.e. at school, etc.).
That is probably not much of a surprise, but what may be surprising is the level of bullying that occurs in many homes among siblings.
The biggest piece of advice that experts give is to have a NO TOLERANCE policy at home, as well. Child and adolescent psychiatrist, of the Uniersity of Texas Medical Branch, Dr. Robin Mallett gives some tips on avoiding this problem at home:
- Establish values and rules: Bullying is not tolerated;
- Don’t exhibit aggressive behavior yourself, particularly when your children are around;
- Reward positive behavior and kindness between siblings;
- Acknowledge and praise individual traits of each child;
- Do not “play favorites” among your children;
- Take time to build the self-esteem of each child;
- Give your children time apart during conflicts to defuse situations.
Overall, parents should not write off bullying as harmless childhood behavior by having the attitude "kids will be kids". Bullying, at home or at school, is a very serious issue that can leave long term emotional scars.
Parents/guardians, what are some ways that you encourage cooperation, kindness and respect among the siblings in your home?
another great topic!
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