Did you read our last post on Teens and Stress? Stress and suicide are real and prevalent issues among teens these days. Here is a personal entry from our Executive Director.
My name is Donna Golob and I am the Executive Director for A Positive Approach to Teen Health. Today, I’m not writing from this position, but from my own personal experience. This is what happened to me several months ago:
I
was sitting watching TV, when I got a text from my friend that read: “I need
your help. Beth (name changed to protect
her privacy) is very depressed and has threatened to hurt herself and I’m not
sure what to do. Didn’t you take suicide
training or something?”
Beth
is 17 years old and does really well in school. She is very involved in extracurricular activities and from the outside
looking in; she looks to be happy and content. Unfortunately and sadly this is
not the case. Beth suffers from stress
and depression that has led to suicidal thoughts. I had no idea that Beth and her family were
going through this; which is another part of the problem. The negative stigma of depression often keeps
youth and their families from seeking the help they need.
My
friend was right; I had gone through the ASIST (Applied Suicide Intervention
Training) program--I should be prepared to help. My heart sank and I felt a panic wash over me. This was not a role playing
scenario, like in class, but a real life situation and I was being called on to act! I went on a quick search for the booklet I
had received upon completion of the training; you know the step-by-step
reminder of what to do. I did my best to
respond to my friend’s questions and walk her through the next couple of hours. I called a
co-worker who had gone through the training with me and between the two of us;
we managed to guide my friend and her daughter through the difficulty with good
results. Beth was, at least for now,
safe and in a good frame of mind. Her
mother had a plan and felt prepared to take the necessary steps to help her
daughter.
I, on the other hand, was a mess! I felt that I should have done more, said more; a thousand “what if’s” came to my
mind. The next morning, I called and
scheduled another ASIST program for my full staff. The urgency was different this time, and my
mind was more alert as I went through the training. For me I realized that it's not a matter of “if” but “when” that
call for help comes.
Okay, so you may be thinking, “This is you, it’s what you do, but no one will ask me.” Consider ingI wouldn't be so sure!
Here are just a few of the recent headlines:
- Fox News Feb 2014: US Teens More Stressed than AdultsAmerican Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry: Helping Teens Deal w Stress
- The Washington Post, Feb 2014: Stressed-out teens, with school a main cause Ivy Tech; Freshman Orientation – Chapter 14 “Stress, Health & Wellness”
- Palo Alto Medical Foundation–What Stresses Teens Out? (Homework & School # 1)
- Mental Health America–Helping Teens Manage Stress: School demands and frustrations #1. Taking on too many activities # 10
- LAST WEEK: 2 Local Teens Take Their Lives Over Spring Break
